I’m writing another astrology post so you know what that means: venus-mars
Dislcaimer: I am no professional, take what resonates
Venus-mars is an interesting one imo, mainly because the planets are so different. Venus: love, affection, romance, and Mars: anger, temper, ambition and drive
(ahem ahem and sexuality).
- Anything in aspect with Mars becomes related to our ambition, drive and sexuality. Depending on the sign as well, anger has more potential to manifest in this area.
- So, with venus-mars, relationships are like a battleground
(not to be dramatic or anything-).Motivation, anger and conflict comes from them, and can manifest in a multitude of ways depending on the aspect and sign.- Hot. OK no jk jk, but really appealing, sexually or not. Venus is love and beauty, and mars is rawness for the lack of a better term. Together, they form a very contrasting but intriguing aura. What is supposed to be traditionally gentle and romantic turns intense and shocking.
- May or may not find themselves in a lot of conflict in relationships (more common with harsh aspects).
- You can skip this one if you’re uncomfortable with sexual topics. Switch energy. Ok no jk again- but let me explain. I think venus-mars makes someone more passionate and intense, and somewhat daring with a fluctuating (perhaps high) libido. That’s why I think most of them wouldn’t be exactly bottoms. If so then at least a bratty one-
- As previously stated, motivation is tied to their relationships. They may be more prone to easily get discouraged or encouraged by others’ people responses. I think these people are reactive as well. Altho this doesn’t always mean hot-headed, or a quick temper. F.e. gemini trine libra mars. Not the most confrontational of signs, but together with that air energy they are more likely to get involved in others’ opinions.
- Their type can vary, but definitely has some mars like traits. Ambitious and confrontational. They can also enjoy some push and pull as flirting a lot, also some banter and raw exchange of emotions.
- I heard these people make great dancers and like, it’s true??? I have libra venus square cancer mars, and despite this because of other aspects in my chart and my disinterest in the sport I suck at dancing. BUT, I have a couple of friends with venus-mars and uhm, I’d honestly ask them for lessons.
- I also have a theory. These people can base their appeal on how they look, which ain’t bad but if overdone it simply becomes overlooking their other qualities. They’re more than their looks.
- PROTECTIVE! Mars is also about protecting your own (coming from the traditional scorpio part of the planet), so these people can be very protective of their loved ones, especially if venus or mars is in a sign like cancer, taurus, scorpio or capricorn.
- Venus conjunct mars merges the two planets together. One isn’t without the other. In romance, they love a challenge, some drama, typical run and chase. They can be somewhat pushy, but this shouldn’t be mistaken as being inconsiderate. They’re involved and devoted to their passions. They can also have high stamina (take that as you will).
- Venus trine mars is an easy aspect. Things flow easily. They’re energetic, which draws people in. Protective and proactive in their relationships (more depending on the signs). Definitely fun. The dark side is that the trine can be easily taken advantage of. They can become disregarding of others and push their ambitions, or be too passive and neglect their own goals for their relationships.
- Venus sextile mars is another positive aspect. Attractive and daring, many people like them. A little wild as well, and I am sensing dancing talent with this one. More low-key than the trine, but more responsible I believe.
- Venus square mars is our first harsh aspect. Sheeee, I have this one :/. Internal conflict is big here. Feminity and masculinity are in a fight. Their relationships, romance, love and harmony versus their goals, ambitions and anger. Depending on the signs, one side is stronger than the other, applies to opposition as well. F.e: scorpio venus square aquarius mars is more likely to choose themselves, meanwhile pisces venus square gemini mars others. This creates a lot of inner turmoil but also confusion in their relationships. Take this with a grain of salt btw. The key here is compromise. They gotta find the middle ground between their romantic and passionate needs, peace and aggression.
- Venus opposite mars is our last harsh aspect. The opposition expresses itself more outwardly. These people can have a lot of conflict in their relationships, but also how they display their character as well (venus like or mars like?). They may experience a lot of contradicting emotions as well regarding romance. This aspect however offers an attractive magnetism, excitement too. The way to deal with the opposition is to take the middle road, and find what suits them best while not neglecting one planet or the other.
- As an end note, I kind of like venus-mars aspects. The harsh ones are indeed difficult to deal with as an outsider, but there are plenty of good parts as well. Very passionate, and exciting.
Thank you for reading!
